One of my favorite fictional characters, Travis McGee, complains that there is no point in retiring when you are too old to enjoy retirement. Hence, he takes his retirement in installments. As soon has he has enough money to coast for a while, he retires until the money runs out. Rinse. Repeat.
Do you have a list of things you would like to do some day? And is that “some day” likely to get postponed until you are too old to actually do those things?
You should consider doing these things now. I can hear people whining that they can’t drop what they are doing and start taking off on vacations. But when you really think about it, whatever you are doing for your day job, you can really take time off (and save enough money) to do the things in your to-do list. My friend Ketan loves traveling and has traveled to the remotest corners of the world. Probably over 40 different countries. And some of these trips take more than a month. He has a wife (who is also working) and a kid (who’s in school) and yet they all manage to take time off for these trips. And he managed to found and run a startup while doing all this. Are you really more busy than him?
This line of thought was triggered by an e-mail from my father-in-law who is preparing to trek to Mt. Everest Base Camp at the age of 64. He has loved travelling and adventure, but unfortunately when he was young, circumstances were such that he could not indulge. So now, he is trying to make up and has already been to Antartica amongst many other places. Mind you, he hasn’t yet retired – he is running a very successful business while he is doing this. He just sent us this e-mail on the eve of his trip to Everest Base Camp that makes for interesting reading:
Since the time I read during my school-times that Edmund Hillary climbed Mt Everest, it has been my wish to get a feel of the great mountain. With my completion of the other trekking and visits to breezing cold places like [Antartica] and trekking to places like Mansarovar-Kailash Parikrama (19,800 ft altitude), Amarnath, Uttaranchal mountains, Hem Kund, etc, I thought of making it to Mt. Everest also. At one stage, I accepted the fact that with advancing age; I should give up this idea. I was disappointed by the things I didn’t do twenty years back than by the ones I did do. However during the cruise to Antarctica, my meetings during the 18 days of journey together with the current world fame mountaineer Mr. Peter Hillary (son of Mr. Edmond Hillary) inspired me that I must try to fulfill my child-hood ambition of embracing Mt. Everest.
God willing, I will be trekking Mt. Everest starting 10 April 2008. With 14 days of steep trekking of 7-10 hours each day, I surely wish to complete it atleast up to the base camp (before the peak Summit). Going further ahead would depend on the various circumstances prevailing then.
Many well wishers have raised the question whether it is right on my part to take this trip at this age. No doubt, I have been told that It is one of the toughest physical and mental challenges one will ever face as it is a difficult and demanding trek in (a) sub-zero temp –10 to -20 deg C (b) heavy chilly wind (c) at a very high altitude with (d) with acute shortage of oxygen. So, it sounds difficult, but I think I am different, so it may not be difficult.
All my above adventures so far, without exception, were with my better half Pushpa. However, this time I will miss her a lot as she has dropped out as her knees may not stand to the strenuous trekking of Mt. Everest. I have been waiting for another company for the last 1-2 years without success and hence I have decided to go all alone, an adventure in my own way. I will hire out a guide/porter to carry baggage from Kathmandu.
Hope I carry your good wishes and surely will have a lot to share with you, on my return.
When are you going to Mt. Everest?
Very interesting. Wish your father-in-law the best in this endeavour! His statement “I was disappointed by the things I didn’t do twenty years back than by the ones I did do” echoes what Mark Twain had said “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.” Great that he is creating an opportunity to do it.
Wow! I have thinking on the lines of “multiple retirement” for a while now and haven’t gathered the courage to actually do it. And honestly, everytime I have to make a difficult decision, I think whether I will regret it or appreciate it after 10 years. This is definitely a great inspiration. Great luck to your father-in-law and would love to hear more about his adventures and of course see pictures!
@Shashi, thanks for the quote.
@Never Mind, I guess a decision is not difficult unless you are unsure of whether you will appreciate it or regret it later. One thing I had heard is this: to make such a decision, toss a coin – heads you’ll do it and tails you will not. And when it is up in the air, see if you are suddenly wishing for it to come up heads (or tails). Then ignore the coin and do what your mind told you to do when the coin was up in the air.
Wish him all the best and do continue to post about his adventure.
Wish him all the best!
I will be happy if I can manage to have such energy level…
It was interesting to read the courageous text about your father-in-law. Well I guess my father would have been game for the adventure. 🙂 But it surely must have been a mind blowing trek up there. I remember we (my parents and I) had been to Gangtok up to Tsomgo Lake up the mountains and could barely imagine that we were still on mother earth. The rough terrain made us think how it might be on another planet. We thanked god for our safe return. Yes it was that adventureous a drive!