abu? rabad?? read this to know more about them


Education – 2

Posted on July 7th, 2009 in aaaaawww, abu, education, just for fun, sports by navin

“Do you have any homework today, Abu?” I asked.

“Yes, I have to draw some sea animal. But I can’t draw.”

“Of course you can draw. Let me give you an idea.”

So I showed him a picture of the Manta Ray from a book we had, and I gave him tips on how could draw that; later I gave him ideas on what else he could put in the picture (seaweed, smaller fishes, etc.) He did an OK job.

The next day I asked him if he gave his homework to the teacher.

“Yes. She said it was very nicely drawed.”

“See, I told you you could draw well. Right?”

“Yes. But I don’t want to draw. I think teacher wants me to be an artist.”

“What?”

“Yes,” he said in a pained voice, as if all the woes of the world were on his head, “She is always asking me to draw this, draw that. She wants to make me an artist. I don’t want to be an artist. I want to be a cricketer. I want to be a bowler.”

calling their bluff and more baby talk

Posted on May 19th, 2009 in aaaaawww, rabad by meetu

about 2 months ago rabad had a bad fall on her head. yeah, we do that every once in a while. to cut a long, scary story short, she had to be in the ICU for a day just for observation. needless to say she was fine in about 2 hours of being in the ICU. you don’t believe me, read this -

so we have some 7 tubes running in and out of her. obviously the nurses didn’t want to take them on and off if she wanted to use the bathroom. so, they put on a diaper for her.

i wasn’t allowed to be with her all the time. the nurses would call me in every once in a while. in one such trip, a nurse tells me, "she just didn’t pee till we took her to the bathroom"

me – yeah, i can imagine that.

rabad called me to her with a broad smile – mamma, they told me that if i don’t pee in the diaper, they’ll give me an injection. right, as if they can do that…they were trying to fool me.

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another one from the hospital. i was trying to comfort her telling her, that it was alright. since both abu and rabad love listening to their birth stories, i told them how i was hospitalized similarly when she was born.

me – see, i’m fine now.

rabad – mamma, i’ll have to come to hospital two times. one now and one when i have a baby

me giving her a high five – yes! just like me. i came to the hospital once for abu and once for you

rabad – oh, then i’ll have to come three times. one now and two for two babies…

yep! i should have seen that coming!!

relatively speaking

Posted on December 4th, 2008 in aaaaawww, rabad by meetu

just a few minutes ago.

rabad (she’s sitting and hugging my feet while i stand)- mamma, i like you very much. i like you more than i like myself.

who said i wont be using this forum to brag?

but seriously, can’t believe the layers that that one sentence has. obviously, the brag. but then the fact that she likes herself quite a lot. and that she has enough confidence to say that out loud. 

then again, maybe i’m reading too much into this. damn, i need some confidence lessons from this 4-year old.

Sweet dreams!!

Posted on July 30th, 2008 in aaaaawww, abu by navin

It’s 7:15am, and Abu needs to start getting ready for school by 7:30. He also likes to watch a little TV before that. And, if some day, he doesn’t wake up before 7:30, he gets a little grumpy because he didn’t get to watch TV.

So I go to his room and try to wake him.

“Abu, wake up, or you’ll miss TV.”

Abu stirs. Opens his eyes. Looks at me.

Frowns.

Then says, “I didn’t finish my dream!”

Short pause.

“I want to finish it.”

And goes back to sleep.

So here I am, thinking that I’ll let him sleep for as long as he wants.

The school bus comes every day. But, a dream that cannot wait, cannot wait…

tlc

Posted on July 24th, 2008 in aaaaawww, abu, rabad by meetu

contusion july 2008

that’s abu’s foot. this is a common occurrence in our household, so not to worry. we have a bone contusion which is not a fracture but deserves a plaster to be on the safer side.

so be it.

there’s more to this post than just “look, he hurt his foot.”

now, just because it’s a common occurrence doesn’t mean we deprive the children of our tender, loving care, ok? so, 4-5 hours in the last couple of nights have been spent listening to “ow, ow, ow it hurts” now, how it decides to hurt only at night, has always been a mystery.

how? the day before yesterday, abu, rabad and a couple of friends from the building, t-man and little-terror-a, were playing a game of “let’s break this huge, heavy loose tile into smaller pieces by throwing it on the floor” and one of the pointed pieces in t-man’s hands ended up on abu’s foot. of course, i tried to stop them, but a little too late.

anyhow, last evening i decided that i need to go for my walk and its high time (as the doctor recommends) that abu start walking around. i use my usual line, “i’m going down for a walk, you can join me or stay at home by yourself” usually this means, both of them come wagging behind and start playing with their friends when they reach down.

abu – ma you go, i will stay home alone…

rabad – i’ll stay with him, don’t worry. he’ll take care of me

me – uhhh…he needs to be taken care of, who’ll do that?

totally expecting an “aaaaawww” moment, i had a smile in my mind.

rabad – t-man! we’ve called him, he’s coming over in 5 minutes…

yep! the same t-man!!!

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ps1. i think, they have set it in their mind, that older person takes care of younger, and t-man is few months older. outlook needs to change…

ps2. t-man was very, very apologetic immediately after he threw the tile and much later too.

jaya he jaya he jaya he

Posted on June 23rd, 2008 in aaaaawww, abu by meetu

i’ve mentioned earlier that many a time we go to a movie after the kids have gone off to sleep. so, we did it again last week. this time the movie was playing at inox. and inox theaters play the Indian national anthem before the screening begins.

we reached about 5 seconds before the anthem one sleeping baby in hand per adult. i rushed so i could keep abu on his seat before the anthem began to avoid standing with 15 kgs for another minute. aaaaaand succccess…!

Only for about 2 seconds that is…pride overtook relief.

abu was standing tall and straight for the national anthem. and went off to sleep after it was over.

tears of joy – not cliche anymore

Posted on May 5th, 2008 in aaaaawww, abu, rabad, why? by meetu

for the first time yesterday morning, abu tread water in the pool without any floats!!!! now, he is all excited about learning how to swim fast (translated to breathing, moving hands and legs in coordination, etc – because according to him he already knows how to swim, you see, he can be in water without drowning for over 5 years now).

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yesterday evening -

we were listening to some song (can’t remember which one) which the kids had seen on TV
rabad – mamma, is she sad?
me – no, she is actually very happy
rabad – then why was she crying in TV?
me – sometimes when we are very very happy, tears come out of our eyes. they are called happy tears.

abu – just like i was very happy this morning when i swam without floats and pappa said, “i am very proud of you, baby”, a tear came out of my eye…


ps. abu went on to clarify that the tear was not from swimming, but was a real tear

letter from a son to his mother

Posted on April 15th, 2008 in aaaaawww, abu by meetu

abu – “mamma, did you check the mail box today? there’s something in there for you”

letter

it reads – dear mum I have given you a letter